Based on John J. Davis’s extraordinary 1987 near-death experience with complete memory recall
The Big Picture: We’re Not Accidents – We Plan Our Lives Before Birth
John J. Davis died during surgery in 1987 and was given something almost no other near-death experiencer has received: 100% memory recall of everything he witnessed on “the other side.” Unlike typical NDEs where people float above their bodies and travel through a tunnel toward white light, John was taken directly beyond that light to see what actually happens when we cross over. What he discovered challenges everything we think we know about death, life purpose, and why we’re really here.
The most shocking revelation? None of us are accidents. We literally plan our entire lives before birth – choosing our country, language, parents, career, and even the challenges we’ll face. Earth isn’t our real home; it’s a specialized learning academy where souls come to experience growth through hardship because, as John learned, “you really can’t describe what it’s like to ride a bike – you have to actually do it.”
The Orientation Process: How Souls Return Home

- The Orientation Center – John found himself in a magnificent marble building resembling the Temple of Artemis in Turkey, with endless corridors, marble tables, and carved tunnels. These tunnels connect Earth to “the other side,” serving as passageways for souls completing their lifetimes.
- Professional orientation counselors – Two beings sit at each marble table to help newly crossed-over souls remember where they’re really from. When we incarnate, our memories of the other side get “washed” so we can have genuine discovery experiences on Earth.
- Age restoration to the 30s – John watched an elderly man who died of a heart attack physically transform back to his 30s during orientation. Nobody explained why 30s specifically, though John wondered if it connected to Jesus’s age at death.
- The reunion gardens – After orientation, souls step down into the most beautiful English gardens imaginable with emerald green grass, where everyone they’ve ever known – family, friends, loved ones from all lifetimes – wait to welcome them home. Coming back from Earth is “a huge deal” because this planet is considered the hardest of all learning environments.
The Life Review: Your Personal Movie Theater
Rather than judgment, the life review happens in a massive circular theater with movie screens surrounding you at the top. Every screen simultaneously plays different aspects of your life from birth to death – one showing you as a newborn, another your first day of school, continuing through every significant moment. The purpose isn’t punishment but evaluation: did you accomplish what you planned to learn before incarnating? Because according to John’s guide Alan, “none of us are accidents – we all actually plan our lifetimes.”
Past Lives Are Real: The Eternal Learning Journey
Though raised Catholic, John was shown three of his previous lifetimes to prove reincarnation exists:
- A Buddhist-style monk teaching children about monastery life
- A village shoe peddler fixing people’s footwear
- A fisherman providing food for his community through net fishing
The lesson? We’re infinite beings with unlimited capacity for learning. We choose to come to Earth because experiential learning through hardship creates growth impossible to achieve through study alone. Some souls prefer staying on the other side where learning continues but more slowly – like trying to understand swimming without ever getting wet.
Life Planning: Your Soul’s Blueprint

In a magnificent domed building, John discovered marble tables containing two scrolls for every soul – one with a blue ribbon, one with red. When he opened his scroll, it revealed beautiful calligraphy writing about his planned lifetime, but folded itself when he tried to read details. His guide explained this contained everything: what country he’d live in, his language, parents, education, career, and most importantly, what he wanted to learn and accomplish.
The building also housed an enormous library of maroon books with gold lettering containing complete records of every soul’s lifetimes and learning experiences. John’s soulmate’s name was revealed as “Nina,” though he learned most souls don’t incarnate with their perfect eternal partners because we learn more through challenging relationships than perfect harmony.
The Cosmic Perspective: Millions of Inhabited Worlds
In a planetarium larger than any Earth stadium, John received a mind-expanding revelation about life in the universe:
- Human perspective vs. cosmic reality – When humans look at stars, we see a limited view. From the other side’s perspective, there are millions and millions of inhabited planets throughout the universe.
- Multi-planetary incarnations – Souls can choose lifetimes on any of these worlds, not just Earth. Our planet is simply one option in an infinite cosmic classroom.
- Earth’s unique reputation – Among all inhabited worlds, Earth is considered the most challenging learning environment, which is why returning from an Earth lifetime is celebrated as a major achievement.
The Universal Library: All Knowledge and History
The most spectacular building resembled the U.S. Supreme Court with massive marble columns and steps. Inside, John found the ultimate library with 30-40 foot bookcases stretching endlessly, filled with beings studying at tables and searching for knowledge.
The most remarkable discovery was private study rooms where souls could watch any historical event as it actually happened – even events from before recording technology existed. John witnessed a woman watching a Native American battle with the U.S. Cavalry in perfect detail. Everything that has ever occurred is somehow recorded and available for study, demonstrating that learning and growth continue eternally.
Inspiration Flows Downward: Heaven’s Blueprints for Earth
When John questioned why everything looked familiar with earthly references, his guide revealed a profound truth: everything on Earth originated on the other side first. The pyramids, Greek and Roman architecture, even modern concepts like libraries and theaters – all were inspired by structures that existed in the spiritual realm before manifesting on Earth.
This explains why certain architectural and artistic achievements seem to transcend their time periods – they’re soul memories of our true home bleeding through into physical creation.
Soulmates and Perfect Love
Soulmates are real – each soul was created with an eternal perfect companion. However, these divine partnerships rarely incarnate together because we learn more from challenging relationships than perfect harmony. Growth comes through struggle, loss, and working through difficulties with imperfect partners.
Your true soulmate typically remains on the other side while you experience Earth lifetimes, waiting for your eventual return when you’ll never have to separate again.
Life’s Real Purpose: Accelerated Soul Development
- Why choose hardship? – Souls volunteer for Earth incarnations specifically to experience challenges impossible on the other side. You learn most from painful experiences – divorce, loss, failure – because they force growth beyond your previous limitations.
- The bike-riding principle – Just as you can’t truly understand riding a bicycle through description alone, souls can’t fully develop certain qualities without direct experience. Earth provides the “bike riding” of spiritual development.
- Taking only love and wisdom – As Denzel Washington noted, “You’ll never see a U-Haul behind a hearse.” The only things that transfer between lifetimes are love, knowledge, and soul development – everything else stays behind.
A Personal Message from Jesus

In the final moment of his experience, John found himself alone in a wildflower field when a figure in white robes with golden sandals appeared. Though he couldn’t see the face due to intense light radiating from the being, John knew this was Jesus. The message was simple but profound: “You must tell them there is no death.”
This wasn’t a request but a command, explaining why John received perfect recall while most NDEers forget details over time.
Practical Signs You’re Living Your Planned Life
- Follow your authentic excitement – Passion points toward your soul’s planned direction and gifts
- Pain teaches most – Your most difficult experiences often align with your deepest planned learning
- Nothing is random – Synchronicities and meaningful coincidences indicate you’re on track with your soul’s blueprint
- Natural talents reveal purpose – The gifts that come easily are part of your planned contribution to the world
Death Is Actually Graduation
- Time perspective shifts – A 90-year Earth lifetime feels like a month or two from the other side’s perspective. Your loved ones who’ve crossed over aren’t experiencing the same grief timeline you are – they know you’ll be “back” soon.
- No permanent separation – Every relationship continues eternally. All pets, family members, and loved ones wait in the reunion gardens. Death is simply changing locations, not ending connections.
- Celebration, not tragedy – Completing an Earth lifetime is like surviving the hardest university in the cosmos. You return home as a hero who accomplished something remarkable.
Bottom Line: Trust the Process
The most important takeaway from John’s experience is that there’s infinite reason for hope. No matter how difficult life becomes, you planned this experience as a soul because you knew it would create growth impossible any other way. Your challenges aren’t punishments – they’re your curriculum.
Earth is temporary school, not permanent home. Everyone you love is waiting for you in a place of perfect beauty where all learning continues, all relationships are eternal, and you can feel directly how deeply God loves and cherishes you.
As John puts it: “When you finish this lifetime and get back, it’s like surviving a war. You will be so proud of yourself for what you accomplished and achieved.”
The message Jesus gave John was clear: “You must tell them there is no death.” Mission accomplished.
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